Parents worry about perfection, mistakes, and long-term outcomes. Kids usually don't. These are the common concerns that weight heavily on parents—but rarely register with children at all.
Read this chapter →Life Library
Welcome to a story God is still writing.
This library holds six Books — Beginnings, Love, Fatherhood, Faith, Becoming, and Tomorrow. Every post is a chapter from one of these Books: real moments, quiet prayers, and unfinished pages gathered along the way.
Start reading 139 chapters and counting.
Scripture: Psalm 27:14
I still hope — but not the way I used to. Hope now feels quieter, slower, and more deliberate. It no longer demands outcomes; it waits with intention.
Read this chapter →Scripture: Matthew 5:4
Growth is often celebrated, but rarely is its cost acknowledged. This chapter reflects on the quiet losses that accompany becoming—and the faith required to trust God when letting go hurts.
Read this chapter →A day shaped by fatigue, shifting expectations, and relentless effort—ending with a rare moment of calm after carrying more than expected.
Read this chapter →Scripture: Galatians 6:9
Faith didn't fail when I felt exhausted—it adapted. This chapter reflects on perseverance, not as strength or certainty, but as the quiet decision to keep showing up even when belief felt worn thin.
Read this chapter →A day of preparation, interruptions, and an unexpected scare—ending not quietly, but with relief and reflection.
Read this chapter →Scripture: Proverbs 15:18
Fatherhood has a way of revealing how much patience I thought I had—and how much more I still need. This chapter reflects on learning restraint, choosing calm, and understanding that leadership at home often begins with silence.
Read this chapter →Scripture: Lamentations 3:31-33
There is a loneliness that comes from being alone—and another that comes from betraying yourself to stay connected. This chapter is about choosing the first, and learning why it hurt less in the end.
Read this chapter →Scripture: Proverbs 27:17
When no one protected me, I learned to protect myself. Discipline became my refuge, and strength became the language I used to survive.
Read this chapter →Parents remember milestones. Kids remember moments. From tone of voice to everyday routines, these are the small things children often carry with them long after parents have forgotten—and why they matter more than we think.
Read this chapter →Scripture: Micah 7:8
There are seasons when the future doesn't look like a destination — it looks like fog. And maybe vision isn't about seeing far ahead, but about trusting the next step enough to take it.
Read this chapter →A long Christmas Day filled with noise, generosity, and unexpected moments—ending not quietly, but meaningfully.
Read this chapter →Scripture: 2 Corinthians 12:9
Even after growth begins, old versions of ourselves still surface. This chapter reflects on recognizing lingering patterns without shame—and choosing awareness over denial as part of the becoming process.
Read this chapter →Scripture: Mark 9:24
Doubt once felt like failure, something to hide or pray way. Over time, I learned that questioning wasn't the opposite of faith—it was part of growing a faith strong enough to stay.
Read this chapter →Scripture: Luke 16:10
Fatherhood redefines responsibility—from obligation to intentional love. This chapter reflects on the unseen choices, quiet sacrifices, and steady commitments that shape trust, character, and the lives entrusted to our care.
Read this chapter →Scripture: Proverbs 4:23
There comes a moment when love stops asking you to explain yourself and starts asking you to protect yourself. This chapter reflects on learning the difference between patience and self-abandonment—and how boundaries became an act of respect, not rejection.
Read this chapter →Scripture: Isaiah 49:15-16
There was a moment in my childhood when life stopped feeling uncertain and started feeling dangerous. This is where survival became my language.
Read this chapter →A Christmas Eve shaped by quiet trust, thoughtful moments, and the reminder that the most meaningful gifts are often the simplest ones.
Read this chapter →Fatherhood changes as you get older. After age 35, priorities shift, patience evolves, and a new version of dad quietly takes shape. These are the most common types of dads that tend to emerge—and chances are, you'll recognize yourself in more than one.
Read this chapter →Scripture: Psalm 78:4
One day, my children will look back on me — not as I was in a single moment, but as I showed up over time. That future version of me is already being written, one ordinary day at a time.
Read this chapter →