Scripture: Psalm 78:4
One day, my children will look back on me — not as I was in a single moment, but as I showed up over time. That future version of me is already being written, one ordinary day at a time.
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Scripture: Psalm 78:4
One day, my children will look back on me — not as I was in a single moment, but as I showed up over time. That future version of me is already being written, one ordinary day at a time.
Read this chapter →Scripture: James 1:19
I didn't lose her because I didn't care—I lost her because I reacted before I paused. This chapter reflects on the cost of urgency, the wisdom of restraint, and the faith required to choose silence over instinct.
Read this chapter →Scripture: Isaiah 30:21
Faith doesn't always arrive with clarity or comfort. Sometimes God is quiet—not absent, but close—asking us to keep walking without reassurance and to trust His presence even when we can't feel it.
Read this chapter →A day spent restoring order, spending more than planned, and sitting with the quiet ache of effort that goes unseen.
Read this chapter →Scripture: 1 John 3:18
Fatherhood is shaped less by milestones and more by moments. This chapter reflects on the quiet power of presence—learning when to lead, when to listen, and how showing up consistently leaves a deeper imprint than perfection ever could.
Read this chapter →Scripture: 1 Corinthians 13:11
I chased urgency instead of intimacy, mistaking intensity for connection and being needed for being loved. This chapter reflects on the hard lessons that come from loving without safety—and the clarity that arrives when you finally learn what love is not.
Read this chapter →Scripture: Lamentations 2:22-23
Tomorrow has always felt fragile to me — like something easily stolen by disappointment. But lately, I'm learning that the future doesn't need my certainty. It only needs my willingness to keep showing up.
Read this chapter →Scripture: Philippians 1:6
Becoming doesn't wait until everything is healed or resolved. It unfolds quietly in the middle—while questions remain unanswered and growth feels slow. This chapter is not about arrival, but about honoring the process God is still writing.
Read this chapter →A day shaped by shifting plans, shared space, and quiet moments showing up—learning that presence doesn't always look perfect, but it counts.
Read this chapter →Scripture: Proverbs 16:9
Faith didn't arrive as certainty—it arrived as persistence. Looking back, I'm beginning to recognize God's hand not in the obvious moments, but in the quiet redirections that kept my story moving forward.
Read this chapter →A day marked not by events, but by thoughts—grappling with honesty, attachment, and the question of how much care is reasonable to ask for.
Read this chapter →Scripture: Proverbs 22:6
Fatherhood didn't come with clarity or confidence—it came with responsibility, reflection, and a quiet kind of faith. This chapter explores the weight, the growth, and the unseen lessons that come from choosing to show up every day as a father still becoming.
Read this chapter →Scripture: Psalm 34:18
Love didn't leave all at once. It faded quietly—settling into empty chairs, unanswered phones, and the habits the heart is slow to unlearn. This chapter begins not with romance, but with what remains after it ends, and the slow, honest work of learning how to hope again.
Read this chapter →Families don't assign roles, but everyone ends up playing one. From the Organizer to the Wild Card, these seven family roles show up at every gathering. Chances are, you'll reorganize yourself—and someone else—in more than one.
Read this chapter →A long day of plans, moments, and growing unease—ending with the realization that care sometimes means setting limits.
Read this chapter →A day of routines, preparation, and quiet reflection—making space for kids, connection, and whatever tomorrow brings.
Read this chapter →A quiet day shaped by intention, concern, and gentleness—learning that presence doesn't always mean staying, and care doesn't always need words.
Read this chapter →A day filled with responsibility, quiet moments, and small kindnesses—ending with reflection, frustration, and the resolve to move forward with grace.
Read this chapter →Scripture: Matthew 18:10
These are the memories from the years before my world changed—the first hints of innocence, chaos, and a childhood already bending under weights I didn't understand.
Read this chapter →Scripture: Psalm 34:18
A childhood defined by pain did not harden me. It shaped my kindness, deepened my compassion, and taught me to become the person I needed when no one showed up for me.
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